Did you read all the info on the website on sexing? Do that first in the oscar section, and then do some searching of this forum for words like "venting", "genital papillae", "ovipositor", "dark spots", "trigger spawning", "tubes", "oval shaped", "2mm" etc...
After that you'll have a better understanding. And if you have some high quality pictures if your fish it could help us try and guess the their sex....