Hi. I'm new to this forum. My problem follows:
I have a tank around 100G. The tank has been running for around six weeks now. After slowly adding a few cichlids a week I currently have 11 in the tank (they are still relatively small at around 1.5-3 inches each). There have been some losses due to fighting and possibly one due to disease. Those in the tank now, save for one, look healthy.
The problem is that the tank still has not cycled. It took a while for any ammonia to appear which I guess, based on the few books I've read so far, is not a bad thing since it just means we're adding fish slowly and not overfeeding them. However, we've now been stuck with a moderate range of ammonia and no nitrites for a few weeks. I have a wet-dry filter so I'm at a complete loss why bacteria colonies have not grown in the proper amounts to see the ammonia drop and the nitrites rise. I have been getting most of my fish and advice from a store (really a specific person within a fish store) to date. They have been very helpful and honest so far, but when I go in for water tests they simply say "the water has not cycled yet. Here's some dirty water."
Is there nothing else I can do? I'm not interested in speeding up the process if it puts the fish at risk, but as someone new to the hobby who has done a fair amount of research I am frustrated that I cannot stock my tank yet and that I have lost so many fish (5 of 16 with one not looking so great right now) despite following expert advice to a T. I actually probably slowed down the process, but after six weeks of no water change and with one cichlid not looking so great I couldn't help it and so I did two water changes in 3 days which effectively introduced 65% new water into the tank.
So what do I do?

