I agree with lowering the temp (78 would be good) and the divider. One thing, though, is that it is not mating that is going on, just simple aggression. With mating play, in my experience, they do become "aggressive" but not so that one fish dominates the other.
Oscars respond to stress differently than other species. They are very sensitive to their surroundings, in and out of the aquarium, and will respond to negative stimuli. Most other species do not hide, feel sorry for themselves, etc. -- but Oscars generally do. Occasionally, when there's a negative influence causing stress, it causes agression. Therefore, after seperating your Oscars, you need to find the "stressor" that caused the agression. First, check water conditions and tank maintenance and make sure they are in line. Test Nitrite, Nitrate, and ammonia; especially nitrate. Maintain a diligent water change/gravel vacuum schedule. Maintain correct temperature. Make sure there's enough filtration. And, importantly, do not overfeed the aquarium! Feed as much as the oscars want, but no more. Floating, decomposing food is
an aquarists worst enemy!!!Secondly, and
this is very important, take a look at the things
outside of the tank that may be causing stress. First, make sure the lighting in the tank is dimmer than the lighting in the room. This removes the reflections in the glass and gives the fish the impression that the area he is in is much larger, lowering stress. Next, move any furniture from the front of the aquarium, creating a wide open space. (In concert with correct water maintenance, this is how you keep Oscar pairs successfully in 55s --). Next, lower noise levels near the tank -- is there a TV or loud stereo near the aquarium? A slamming door? Any other noise source that can be moderated?
The point is, Oscars never just "become" aggressive, especially with a tankmate that they've been peaceful with for a while. There is a stressor; you need to seperate the Oscars, then find and rectify the problem.

--Mark