Sand is great for other types of fish tanks but not really good with Oscars and other types of cichlids that love to move things around in they're tank! And yes you should definitely stick to gravel

! You could switch to a smaller sized gravel if you wish too.But the gravel you have in your tank now is good too! and you don't have to worry about your Oscar eating any of it. Oscars usually know the difference between food and decor or substrate!! And i agree with Mark, making sure that there is nothing sharp in your tank that could injure your Oscar as he or she moves the gravel around in the tank.
Hope my advice was helpful
