I have two mature oscars with the sex unknown. I have been scrutinizing them over the past couple days. They have gone from extremely affectionate to lip-locking and severe biting of the fins and body. I thought it dangerous to leave them in the same tank together, so I took one of them out for 36 hours. I just put the one back in the same tank tonight, and the two immediately came together, and started flexing their gills, raising their dorsal fins, and making their entire body quiver. They lip-locked somewhat, but it was mostly show today. And now, I just did a 50% water change, and the pair has resorted to their affectionate ways once again.
I guess my question is: do you think that these fish (obviously with no visual one's answer is limited) are of different sex, and regardless of the sex, is this kind of behavior dangerous for them, and what does this mean?
I know it's a loaded question, but any insight would be greatly appreciated.
jase

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and yea he's bored and has nothing else to do, nothing else in his tank. When he's in the 55 or 65gallon tank he never attacks the heater.....but not sure if that's because of the bigger size or if he just would rather bite the other oscars instead